Thursday, January 6, 2011

我的所谓亲情??

总是很羡慕那些跟家里人相处得很融恰,兄弟姐妹之间互相帮忙互相扶持的家庭,虽然家家有本难念的经,之间有一些磨擦是难免的事,但都会是短暂的,雨过天晴之后又都是一家人。。但我情形不一样,各自只为自己想,为了利益不择手段,连亲生妹妹也可以出卖。。另一边,父亲为了一口气,为了给他儿子和媳妇一个下马威,竟然牺牲我的前途,逼我进公司取代他媳妇的位子,但又三方四次让她回去争权让我难受,我真的搞不懂他到底想怎样。。每次当我说要离开时,父亲就说不想让他媳妇得益,希望我留下来,但他又批准她claim车油,parking,toll全部都可以claim,甚至最近还买了一辆二手BMW 5 Series给他,而我买新车他一点资助都没有给我,我已经三方四次叫我自己算了,钱是他的,他绝对有权力给谁不给谁。。。

但这次是真的无法忍受,所谓的亲生哥哥借装修office为理由,乘机连我也一起赶走,他特地把我坐的位子缩成超小的地方,我想大概只有百多尺的地方,还要坐两个人再加上壁柜跟partition,这根本连狗屋都不如。。而他自己就加大了他的房间,再弄了个meeting room 和 manager room,说是要给salesman拿来开会,难道他们需要24小时开会不用出去做sales?!再说隔壁父亲用便价组给他的office大把位子,一个人都没有,为什么不可以在那里开会?最离谱就是隔了一间所谓的secretary room说要请多一个秘书,竟然还要给他一间房,白痴都知道他是为他老婆而设的,到时又可以让他老婆回来。。他们这次是算过量过,一点破绽都不会让我破,我是彻彻底底的输了,只好退出还有什么办法,再这样下去我怕会搞到自己精神有问题,到时真的没有人可怜

2 comments:

King said...

Gave you advice in FB without reading this first, sorry. I do come to your blog sometimes, just been busy lately. Didn't know so much has happened to you, so sorry about your situation. Now I understand more about the case and I will tyr to come up with something more appropriate to say. Will email you very soon. At the meantime, don't think too much, take care, appreciate the things you love!

Celene said...

I don't know what to say about your concern, am really really appreciate it, thanks my buddy!!

I admit when this things come to me in the 1st place, I was so frustrated, and had a lot of negative thinking...I felt so sad not only because my brother wanted to kick me out, but the way he planned to achieve his goal...We are from the same parents, why make the situation so bad to hurt our relationship?!

After calmed down and planned to leave the company, I got a surprise!! He offers me a better solution...Although it's not a very good option, but at least he takes the initiative to let me know he is not taking renovation as a technique to kick me out, he only aims at the matter...

I hope what he said is true but not another conspiracy...

Anyway, I learned something from this matter, I really need to prepare myself to prevent the similar things happen again!! I need a backup plan for my future!!